Online safety for women: protecting yourself from harassment
A practical safety guide for women in Nepal facing online harassment, stalking, blackmail or unwanted contact — how to lock down your accounts, respond safely, gather evidence, and where to get help.
Many women in Nepal experience harassment online — unwanted messages, sexual comments, stalking, threats, fake profiles, or blackmail with private photos. None of it is your fault, and you do not have to put up with it.
You have more control than it may feel like right now. With a few privacy changes and a clear plan, you can cut off most harassers, protect your accounts, and gather what you need to report serious cases.
This guide focuses on practical, do-it-today steps — and on safe choices, because how you respond can affect your safety. Where a situation feels dangerous, prioritise getting help over handling it alone.
Lock down your accounts first
Strong privacy settings stop most casual harassment and make it harder for strangers to find and contact you. Spend twenty minutes doing these once, and review them every few months.
- Turn on two-factor authentication (2FA) on Facebook, Instagram, Gmail and other key accounts so no one can log in with just your password.
- Set your profiles to private/friends-only and review your friends/followers list — remove people you do not know.
- Hide your phone number, email, address and location from your public profile.
- Turn off location sharing and remove location tags from photos.
- Use a strong, unique password for each important account; a password manager makes this easy.
- Be careful what you accept — friend requests and message requests from strangers are a common entry point for harassers.
Respond safely: do not engage, do block
Your instinct may be to argue back or explain yourself. With harassers, engaging usually makes it worse and can escalate the situation. The safer pattern is to disengage and cut off contact.
You are never obliged to reply, justify yourself, or stay 'polite' to someone harassing you.
- Do not reply, argue or send angry messages — silence denies the harasser the reaction they want.
- Block the account on every platform where they contact you.
- Use 'Restrict' (Instagram) or mute features if you want to limit someone without alerting them.
- Report the account and content to the platform under harassment/abuse.
- Tell someone you trust — a friend or family member — so you are not dealing with it alone.
Gather evidence before you delete anything
If the harassment is serious — threats, stalking, blackmail, or sharing your images — you may need to report it to the police. Evidence is what makes a report actionable, so collect it before blocking or deleting.
Keep everything in a safe place, such as a private folder or a trusted person's device, in case your own account is compromised.
- Screenshot every message, comment, post and profile, making sure the username, date and time are visible.
- Save links/URLs to the offending profiles and posts.
- Note dates, times and what happened in a simple log.
- Back up the evidence somewhere safe before you block or report.
- Do not edit the screenshots — keep them as originals.
Where to get help in Nepal
You do not have to face this alone, and reporting is your right. For online crimes — harassment, threats, stalking, blackmail, fake profiles, non-consensual images — the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau is the main authority; look up its official online complaint channel and contact details.
For emergencies and immediate danger, call the police on 100. Nepal also operates a national women and children helpline; the widely used number is 1145, and the police women/children service desks at local stations can also assist. If you need emotional support, reach out to a trusted person or a counselling service.
If you feel unsure, you can also seek advice from a lawyer or a women's rights organisation, several of which support survivors of online and gender-based abuse.
Key takeaways
- ✓Online harassment is never the victim's fault, and you have the right to stop it and report it.
- ✓Lock down accounts first: 2FA, private profiles, hidden contact details, strong unique passwords.
- ✓Do not engage — block and report instead, as arguing usually escalates harassment.
- ✓Save evidence (screenshots, links, dates) before blocking or deleting anything serious.
- ✓For blackmail with images, never pay; preserve evidence and report to the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau.
- ✓Get help: Cyber Bureau for cybercrime, police 100 for emergencies, and the national women/children helpline.
Online Safety for Women — FAQ
Someone keeps sending me unwanted messages. What should I do?+
Do not reply — replying usually encourages them. Block the account on every platform, set your profiles to private, and report the account for harassment. If the messages include threats or blackmail, save screenshots and report to the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau.
A person is threatening to share my private photos unless I pay. Help?+
Do not pay and do not send more images — paying almost never stops blackmail and usually invites more demands. Stop responding, save all evidence (threats, account, demands) without deleting, and report to the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau. Call 100 if you are in immediate danger, and confide in someone you trust.
Will the police take online harassment seriously?+
Online harassment, threats and blackmail can be criminal matters that the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau handles. Strong, organised evidence — screenshots with usernames, dates and links — makes your report much easier to act on. You can also seek support from a lawyer or a women's rights organisation.
How do I stop strangers from finding me online?+
Set your profiles to private/friends-only, remove your phone number, email, address and location from public view, turn off location sharing, and be selective about friend and message requests. Turn on two-factor authentication so no one can take over your accounts.
What is the women and children helpline number in Nepal?+
Nepal operates a national women and children helpline; the widely used number is 1145, and local police stations have women and children service desks. For emergencies call the police on 100, and for cybercrime contact the Nepal Police Cyber Bureau through its official channel.
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